Apr 8, - Sometimes I just want to fuck, and not worry about what sex means My ex has a girlfriend, but they don't live together and she doesn't know Missing: blog | Must include: blog. May 9, - Signs your interest in your partner's ex may have turned obsessive. “That woman over there,” the designer said, pointing across the room, “is my boyfriend's ex-girlfriend. . She even invited me to a lecture on pansexuality once, knowing I wrote about sex. Karley Sciortino writes the blog Slutever.